Anne Sexton

Portrait of Anne Sexton
Anne Sexton 1928–1974
1928Born

Anne Gray Harvey was born in Newton, Massachusetts, in 1928. She attended Garland Junior College for one year and married Alfred Muller Sexton II at age nineteen. She enrolled in a modeling course at the Hart Agency and lived in San Francisco and Baltimore. In 1953 she gave birth to a daughter. In 1954 she was diagnosed with postpartum depression, suffered her first mental breakdown, and was admitted to Westwood Lodge, a neuropsychiatric hospital she would repeatedly return to for help. In 1955, following the birth of her second daughter, Sexton suffered another breakdown and was hospitalized again; her children were sent to live with her husband's parents. That same year, on her birthday, she attempted suicide.

She was encouraged by her doctor to pursue an interest in writing poetry she had developed in high school, and in the fall of 1957 she enrolled in a poetry workshop at the Boston Center for Adult Education. In her introduction to Anne Sexton's Complete Poems, the poet Maxine Kumin, who was enrolled with Sexton in the 1957 workshop and became her close friend, describes her belief that it was the writing of poetry that gave Sexton something to work towards and develop and thus enabled her to endure life for as long as she did. In 1974 at the age of 46, despite a successful writing career--she won the Pulitzer Prize for poetry in 1967 for Live or Die--she lost her battle with mental illness and committed suicide.

Like Robert Lowell, Sylvia Plath, W. D. Snodgrass (who exerted a great influence on her work), and other "confessional" poets, Sexton offers the reader an intimate view of the emotional anguish that characterized her life. She made the experience of being a woman a central issue in her poetry, and though she endured criticism for bringing subjects such as menstruation, abortion, and drug addiction into her work, her skill as a poet transcended the controversy over her subject matter.

Reading closely

Analyses

A full analysis sits under 11 of these poems: what each poem says, how it is built and how readers here have read it. About the analyses

  • The AbortionAn abortion told through a spring drive, an evasive refrain and a final blunt naming
  • Suicide NoteA letter before suicide that expects no understanding and no notice from the world
  • YoungA lonely child on a summer lawn at night, parents seen as windows, near growing up
  • To A Friend Whose Work Has Come To TriumphIcarus praised for his flight, not blamed for his fall, set against his sensible father
  • Killing The LoveA breakup told as murder, followed by numbness, a funeral no one holds, and dancing alone
  • The Ballad Of The Lonely MasturbatorMasturbation, a lover lost to a rival, and a refrain that weds the speaker to her bed
  • Sylvia's DeathGrief laced with envy for a friend's death, a shared wish for death, and fond farewells
  • Anna Who Was MadGuilt, a plea for mothering, and a dead woman ordered to answer from the grave
  • GhostsWomen, men and children as sagging ghostly bodies, neither holy nor evil
  • The Starry NightA sky that boils and swallows, a wish to die, and a speaker leaving with no cry

From readers

What readers say about Anne Sexton

  1. On The Abortion

    “you morons, this poem isn't about sticking a berlody coat hanger up your crotch, it's about somebody who should've been born being gone. can't you step outside yourselves for the length of a bloody poem? jesus god. anne sexton did not write poem about how abortions are bad. she was a genius, not an…”

  2. On Courage

    “i read courage as the courage to endure the pain inflicted by everyday struggles which are magnified when seen through the unforgiving shades of depression in silence. i see intense fear and anxiety especially in the comparison of a child's first step to a an earthquake, the random nature of human…”

  3. On Ghosts

    “Ghosts are shells of humans that once were. The human that she once was is “lurching above [her] bed” I feel she is desperate for a fulfillment, but she knows that she is not the only one suffering. “Not all ghosts are women.” Yes she was abused as a child and that defiantly influences her writing…”

  4. On The Starry Night

    “Brilliant description of Van Gogh's famous painting. She makes the night scene seem both beautiful and terrifying. I find it fascinating how Anne was able to convey her passion for life within the context of her death. She didn't want to die meekly, but would rather lunge headlong into her fate…”

  5. On The Bells

    “the significance of The Bells--this is much more of a dark memory from her childhood. The bells are first seen trembling for the flying man--"the three rings of danger."--the ringing takes you back to the bells. And is repeated in her next stanza with "love, love, love"--is it love or is another…”

  6. On For God While Sleeping

    “The disturbing feverish images ("like a pig on exhibit", "drooling blood and vinegar","jaw gapes" and "your diaper sags"), almost blasphemous, a mixture of pity, ignorance, concern and delusion create a nightmare image of Christ crucified in the feverish dream of an unbeliever or maybe just a poor…”

Where readers gather

Most discussed

  1. The Abortion32 comments
  2. Suicide Note29 comments
  3. Young27 comments
  4. Courage26 comments
  5. To A Friend Whose Work Has Come To Triumph14 comments
  6. Killing The Love13 comments
  7. The Ballad Of The Lonely Masturbator13 comments
  8. Sylvia's Death12 comments
  9. Anna Who Was Mad11 comments
  10. Ghosts11 comments

All 168 poems

All My Pretty Ones · 1962 · 3 poems
Live Or Die · 1964 · 1 poem
The Death Notebooks · 1974 · 14 poems
The Awful Rowing To God · 1975 · 1 poem
45 Mercy Street · 1 poem
Love Poems · 2 poems
The Awful Rowing Toward God · 2 poems
Transformations · 1 poem
Other poems · 143
  1. Sylvia's Death196312
  2. "Daddy" Warbucks6
  3. 45 Mercy Street7
  4. A Curse Against Elegies3
  5. A Story For Rose On The Midnight Flight To Boston
  6. Admonitions to a Special Person
  7. After Auschwitz10
  8. Again and Again and Again
  9. All My Pretty Ones
  10. An Obsessive Combination Of Onotological Inscape, Trickery And Love3
  11. And One For My Dame
  12. Angels Of The Love Affair2
  13. Anna Who Was Mad11
  14. As It Was Written3
  15. August 17th2
  16. August 8th
  17. Baby Picture2
  18. Barefoot2
  19. Bat1
  20. Bayonet1
  21. Briar Rose (Sleeping Beauty)7
  22. Buying The Whore6
  23. Christmas Eve3
  24. Cigarettes And Whiskey And Wild, Wild Women7
  25. Cinderella9
  26. Clothes1
  27. Cockroach4
  28. Consorting With Angels2
  29. Courage26
  30. Cripples And Other Stories
  31. Crossing The Atlantic
  32. Demon4
  33. Despair2
  34. Doctors3
  35. Doors, Doors, Doors
  36. Dreaming The Breasts2
  37. Earthworm
  38. Elegy In The Classroom1
  39. Elizabeth Gone1
  40. End, Middle, Beginning1
  41. Flee On Your Donkey3
  42. For God While Sleeping2
  43. For John, Who Begs Me Not To Enquire Further8
  44. For Johnny Pole On The Forgotten Beach
  45. For My Lover, Returning To His Wife9
  46. For The Year Of The Insane1
  47. Frenzy
  48. Ghosts11
  49. Gods2
  50. Going Gone
  51. Her Kind5
  52. Hornet
  53. Housewife3
  54. Hurry Up Please It's Time3
  55. I Remember1
  56. In Excelsis
  57. In The Deep Museum1
  58. It Is A Spring Afternoon
  59. Killing The Love13
  60. Knee Song
  61. Lessons In Hunger2
  62. Live
  63. Locked Doors1
  64. Love Letter Written In A Burning Building1
  65. Lullaby
  66. More Than Myself
  67. Mr. Mine1
  68. Music Swims Back To Me9
  69. My Friend, My Friend1
  70. Noon Walk On The Asylum Lawn1
  71. Oh1
  72. Old
  73. Portrait Of An Old Woman On The College Tavern Wall
  74. Raccoon
  75. Rowing5
  76. Rumpelstiltskin
  77. Said The Poet To The Analyst2
  78. Small Wire
  79. Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs1
  80. Some Foreign Letters
  81. Suicide Note29
  82. That Day
  83. The Abortion32
  84. The Addict10
  85. The Ambition Bird1
  86. The Angel Food Dogs
  87. The Assassin
  88. The Author Of The Jesus Papers Speaks5
  89. The Balance Wheel1
  90. The Ballad Of The Lonely Masturbator13
  91. The Bells6
  92. The Big Boots Of Pain
  93. The Big Heart
  94. The Black Art2
  95. The Break1
  96. The Break Away
  97. The Breast1
  98. The Child Bearers
  99. The Children
  100. The Civil War
  101. The Consecrating Mother
  102. The Dead Heart1
  103. The Death Baby
  104. The Death King2
  105. The Division Of Parts1
  106. The Doctor Of The Heart1
  107. The Double Image2
  108. The Earth
  109. The Earth Falls Down
  110. The Errand
  111. The Evil Eye
  112. The Evil Seekers1
  113. The Exorcists
  114. The Expatriates
  115. The Fallen Angels
  116. The Firebombers1
  117. The Frog Prince2
  118. The Fury Of Abandonment
  119. The Fury Of God's Good-bye2
  120. The Gold Key
  121. The Interrogation Of The Man Of Many Hearts1
  122. The Inventory Of Goodbye1
  123. The Kiss4
  124. The Legend Of The One-Eyed Man
  125. The Lost Ingredient
  126. The Moss Of His Skin1
  127. The Other
  128. The Play1
  129. The Poet Of Ignorance2
  130. The Red Dance1
  131. The Stand-Ins
  132. The Touch
  133. The Truth the Dead Know4
  134. The Twelve Dancing Princesses
  135. The Wedding Ring Dance
  136. The Wifebeater3
  137. To A Friend Whose Work Has Come To Triumph14
  138. Unknown Girl In A Maternity Ward1
  139. Us
  140. Wallflower
  141. Where It Was At Back Then
  142. Words3
  143. You, Doctor Martin2