We never know how high we are

Portrait of Emily Dickinson
Emily Dickinson 1830–1886
1176Complete Poems of Emily Dickinson

We never know how high we are Till we are asked to rise And then if we are true to plan Our statures touch the skies --

The Heroism we recite Would be a normal thing Did not ourselves the Cubits warp For fear to be a King --

From the bookComplete Poems of Emily DickinsonEdited by Thomas H. Johnson (Little, Brown)

We never know how high we are: analysis

Introduction

"We never know how high we are" is an eight-line poem by Emily Dickinson. It is about the gap between what people are and what they let themselves be. The first stanza says that our true height shows only when we are called on to rise.

The second stanza turns this into a charge against ourselves. Heroism would be ordinary, it says, if fear did not make us shrink our own measure. The poem speaks for everyone as we, and it ends on the word "King".

Summary

The first stanza makes a general statement in the first person plural, speaking for all of us at once. The speaker says that "We never know how high we are" until a particular moment arrives. That moment comes when "we are asked to rise" (line 2). A condition follows in line 3: "if we are true to plan". If that condition holds, the speaker says, "Our statures touch the skies" (line 4), and the stanza closes on a dash.

The second stanza turns to "The Heroism we recite" (line 5), meaning the brave deeds that people tell and repeat. The speaker says that such heroism "Would be a normal thing" (line 6). It is not normal because of something we do to ourselves. In line 7 we "the Cubits warp", bending the units by which we are measured. We do this "For fear to be a King" (line 8), and the poem ends, like the first stanza, on a dash.

Themes and meaning

The first theme is hidden capacity. Line 1 says we "never know" our height, so it exists before anyone measures it. It becomes visible only under demand, when "we are asked to rise". The verb is passive, and the call comes from outside without the poem saying who makes it. The reward is large: "Our statures touch the skies".

The second theme is self-limitation. Lines 7 and 8 place the fault inside us, since "ourselves" warp the "Cubits". The image is exact: we do not simply fall short of a measure but bend the measuring unit itself, so our smallness looks true. The cause is named as fear, though not fear of failure. It is "fear to be a King", a fear of greatness and of the standing it brings.

The third theme is the nature of heroism. "The Heroism we recite" is heroism told as story, usually about others. The poem deflates it: such deeds "Would be a normal thing". This can be read as praise of ordinary people, who hold heroic height in reserve. It can also be read as a rebuke, since the heroic stays rare only by our choice.

The poem also leaves open a question of ambition and humility. "Till we are asked to rise" suggests that rising should wait for an invitation. "true to plan" may mean a person's own purpose or a design laid down by someone else. The second stanza, though, treats holding back as a failure. Both readings have support in the text.

Tone

The first stanza is calm and assured. It speaks in the manner of a proverb, with the absolute "never" in line 1. The promise in line 4 is confident and even exalted: "Our statures touch the skies". Yet the condition in line 3, "if we are true to plan", keeps the promise from being easy.

The second stanza shifts to gentle reproach. "Did not ourselves the Cubits warp" admits a fault. Because the speaker says "ourselves", the blame is shared and not handed down from above. The last line names fear plainly, without scorn. The closing dash leaves the image of the "King" hanging, so the tone ends rueful but open rather than settled.

Form and structure

The poem has 8 lines in 2 stanzas of 4 lines each. The lines alternate between 8 and 6 syllables, the full range being 6 to 8. This is common metre, the pattern of many hymns. The longer lines are iambic tetrameter and the shorter ones iambic trimeter. The metre is regular throughout, as in 'we NEV-er KNOW how HIGH we ARE'.

Only the second and fourth lines of each stanza rhyme, giving ABCB and DEFE. Both rhymes are full: "rise" with "skies" and "thing" with "King". Each stanza ends with a dash. The syntax of line 7 is inverted to keep the metre. Capitals mark three nouns: "Heroism", "Cubits" and "King".

Poetic devices

Metaphor line 1
how high we are Height stands for worth or capacity. The whole poem is built on this measurement of a person's inner size.
Alliteration line 1
how high The repeated h sound links the question of how much with the idea of height, and gives the opening line its lift.
Passive voice line 2
we are asked to rise The call comes from outside and its source is never named. This leaves open whether circumstance, other people or God does the asking.
Hyperbole line 4
Our statures touch the skies The exaggeration shows how far the hidden capacity reaches. It turns the metaphor of height into a physical image of growth.
Irony line 6
Would be a normal thing What we praise as heroism is called normal. The flat word deflates the grand one and shifts the question to why it is rare.
Inversion line 7
Did not ourselves the Cubits warp The word order puts "ourselves" early and the verb last. This stresses who is to blame and keeps the iambic metre.
Metaphor line 7
the Cubits warp The units of measure themselves are bent. People do not just fall short of a standard but distort the standard to fit their fear.
Symbol line 8
a King The king stands for the full height a person could reach, with the rule and responsibility it brings.
Rhyme line 8
For fear to be a King "King" rhymes with "thing" in line 6. The sound pairs the normal with the royal, which is the poem's point.
Dash line 4
Our statures touch the skies -- The dash leaves the stanza open, as if the growth has no fixed end. The last line of the poem ends the same way.

Words worth knowing

statures
Bodily height, but also standing or rank gained by growth or achievement. Both senses work here.
recite
To repeat aloud or tell over, as a story or a lesson learned by heart.
Cubits
An ancient unit of length, roughly a forearm long. Here it means the measure we use for ourselves.
warp
To bend or twist out of true shape. The measure is distorted, not merely misread.
true to plan
Faithful to a design or purpose. The text does not say whose plan it is.

Context

Emily Dickinson lived from 1830 to 1886. The poem is number 1176 in Complete Poems of Emily Dickinson, published in 1955. It has been on americanpoems.com since January 2004 and was the site's Poem of the Day on 22 November 2014.

What readers have said

  • LG reads the first stanza as saying that circumstances force us to find our capacities, and rejects the humility reading of the second. For LG, the poem criticises our reluctance to push ourselves, take charge and lead. LG, 2006
  • Joseph reads the poem as about humility, not ambition. He links it to the parable in Luke 14 about not taking the highest seat until bidden. Joseph, 2012
  • maria stentiford reads the second stanza as saying that people fear success more than failure. To be a King is frightening and invites jealousy and malice, so staying with the status quo feels safer. maria stentiford, 2022
  • joe notes that "statures" means standing gained by achievement, not physical height, and that a cubit is a unit of measure. He reads the poem as about the gap between how we say we will act and how we act when tested. joe, 2005
  • Barnaby Lancaster read it as a poem about drugs, taking "Heroism" as a pun on heroin and "high" as intoxication. Later commenters rejected this and said heroism means being a hero. Barnaby Lancaster, 2005
  • silvia reads the call to rise as death, when we learn how much we matter as we are called to rise to the sky with God. silvia, 2009

This analysis was drafted from the poem’s text, the records of American Poems and the readers’ comments. Every quotation and line number was checked against the poem, scanned for unsupported claims, and the editor read and revised it before publication. Facts about the poet’s life appear only when a source is given. Corrections are welcome through the contact page.

Revised in September 2026.

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  1. Vianney Honduras

    This is my very favorite poem. I love it. I think it means that we don't know how good we can be at something until we actually do it, and that it's worth our time to do things that we've never done before.

  2. Joseph Egypt

    I love this poem! To me, it's a simple definition of humility: We never really feel "high" until other people call on us to "rise". In other words, one would not feel really proud if one's pride came from within: the praise has to come from other people for us to feel truly proud. And, enjoying this humility, and being "true" to God's "plan" for us, "our statures touch the skies". "The heroism we recite" is one's…

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    I love this poem! To me, it's a simple definition of humility:
    We never really feel "high" until other people call on us to "rise". In other words, one would not feel really proud if one's pride came from within: the praise has to come from other people for us to feel truly proud.
    And, enjoying this humility, and being "true" to God's "plan" for us, "our statures touch the skies".
    "The heroism we recite" is one's exploits and one's deeds that one talks about. It would be a "a daily thing": no one would really care about them. That is, no one would really care if not for one condition: "did not ourselves the cubits warp"; a cubit is an ancient unit of measurement used a lot in the Old Testament and warp means to "change for worse". In other words: no one would care about our "heroism" if we weren't modest and tried to downplay the whole matter. And "for fear to be a king" is just the explanation: we would "warp the cubits" for fear of being arrogant.
    GREAT POEM!

  3. Era United States

    Very inspirational poem. Stand up and be counted, soar like an eagle, rise to the occasion. Don't let fear paralyse you.

  4. Barnaby Lancaster Canada

    Emily Dickenson was reffering to drugs in this poem, AGAIN. Her use of the word heroism is reffering to a drug called heroin and she is telling us how she never knew she could get so high.

  5. Shelby Bell United States

    This poem is not about drugs. It is about we dont know how high we are until we die.

  6. Amber Collier United States

    this poem is crazy i think it tells alot about life and what it is like to be on drugs

  7. Anna

    I seem to think there were a few word changes in the poem. That or there is more than one version. The version posted here uses the word "asked" in the 2nd line.. when the version I am familiar with uses the word "called" in the 6th line this version uses the word "normal" when I believed the word "daily" to be used. Either way the poem has the same awesome meaning. THAT IS NOT ABOUT DRUGS lol

  8. Kari United States

    This poem is not about drugs. When she used the term heroism, she was referring to being a HERO. Look deeper.

  9. joe United States

    some people need to look up the key words they don't notice... the first key word being stature, which is defined as being status gained by growth, development, or achievement... not someone's physical height.... the second being cubit, which is a form of measurement... now to my interpretation... We always SAY we'll act a certain way when faced with a particular situation, but we sometimes don't do what we said we…

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    some people need to look up the key words they don't notice... the first key word being stature, which is defined as being status gained by growth, development, or achievement... not someone's physical height.... the second being cubit, which is a form of measurement... now to my interpretation...

    We always SAY we'll act a certain way when faced with a particular situation, but we sometimes don't do what we said we would when that possibility is realized.
    If we do act according to our plans, or in what i like to think of as our values, then we see ourselves as better people for having done what we consider is right. we consider ourselves "heroes".
    "Fear to be a king" basically means fear of being someone that everyone notices.
    The courage we display by sticking to our word would be a common thing for us if we didn't worry about how many people ridicule us for going against the majority's beliefs.
    For you people who don't look at the poem very closely, IT'S NOT ABOUT GETTING STONED!!!

  10. ba$ak Turkey

    tomorrow probably, we might have an exam about it :))

    we don't know our true potential until we are asked to meet new challenges. we never really feel high until other people call us to rise.
    "skies" symbolizes limitless possibility.
    we don't take credit for our success. the praise has to come from other people for us to feel truly proud.

    noone could care about our heroism if we weren't modest and tried to downplay the whole matter.

    that's all.... :)

  11. aeny United States

    This is not about being on drugs! and those of you who think it is, have very shallow thinking. why don't you go a little deeper, and analyze the poem!

  12. LG United States

    I have always understood this poem differently than most others address it: To me, it is saying that we don't know the depth of our capabilities until we are forced by circumstances to rise to the occassion. We are always capable of doing more, if we push ourselves. I do not believe that the second stanza refers to humility at all: I think that Emily is criticizing our reluctance to push ourselves, to take charge,…

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    I have always understood this poem differently than most others address it:

    To me, it is saying that we don't know the depth of our capabilities until we are forced by circumstances to rise to the occassion.

    We are always capable of doing more, if we push ourselves.

    I do not believe that the second stanza refers to humility at all: I think that Emily is criticizing our reluctance to push ourselves, to take charge, and to lead. The feats which we consider to be heroic, could happen every day if we exerted ourselves.

    "Warping the cubits" refers to what we actually put forth, not just our attitudes toward it.

    "Fear to be a king" addresses our insecurities, and fear at assuming such a responsibility or honor.

  13. Chynna Joy United States

    This would have to be one of my favorite poems written by Emily Dickinson. The meaning of this poem may be different for different people, but to me I think Emily Dickinson is talking about how we don't discover our own potential and strengths until we are forced to by being pushed.

  14. JK United States

    Haha, although some STONERS out there would think it an awesome poem about drugs, they most obviously would not have described it as "getting high" in the 1800's, lol...ur digging deep, just not in the right direction! Lol...

  15. steve United States

    This poem was quoted by one of the characters in the movie Seabiscut. Great movie and great poem! I don't think the main source of inspiration for the poem was herion. It doesn't fit the rest of her poetic content. Emily wrote about LIVE, LOVE, and NATURE...
    Steve

  16. Bob United States

    i heard this poem in a movie once... hehe... im bored.... i have to write a poem on a famous poet.... im bored again.... hehe.....

  17. Heather United States

    I believe that this poem is very true and inspiring. I play softball and this makes me think of a time i was asked to play a more difficult position than i was used to and i did great! I did better than i had before! I pushed myself as Dickinson explained and I rose to the occasion. Dickinson explains that we never know what we can do until we push ourselves and actually try your best and with everything you got. You might be surprises and don't be afraid to do great!!!

  18. Jo United States

    I'm merely stating that to those people who think she is talking about drugs, there is no proper way to recite ("repeat aloud from memory") drugs.

  19. silvia United Kingdom

    I like the poem so much . I think she mean how much we important till we are close to death .when we hear the callto rise to the sky with God.

  20. qiusong China

    it's wonderful

  21. Melissa

    I like this poeam. We can grow up to be strong as long as we expect ourselves to.

  22. Abi United States

    I really thought this was a great poem. What she's saying is, you never know how great you are until you push yourself and can find out what you can do. She goes on to say that we could all be great, if we weren't scared of failure.

  23. Mr. Shahenshah United Arab Emirates

    Comments

    This poem is a soft criticism on ourselves. It indirectly requests us to wake up, be courageous and take some bold steps towards personal, individual and collective success (for this world & the Next).

    It, inshort, conveys that believe in yourself (and your GOD), set some bolt targets followed by true planning based on action plan, and be immune to fear and possibility of failure to become a great achiever.

    Thanks,

    Best regards,

    Mr. Shahenshah
    Language Trainer
    Dubai
    [email removed]

  24. ciel United States

    we never know how hig we are

    Personally i think as do the rest, that this poem tells of how vast the human capabilities are if pushed up to reach, yet in the end i think emily dickinson means to say that we have daily successes of all kind some of which are concidered heroism, yet although we can reach higher, we put spaces and spaces between us and some great achievements in life for fear of the great responsibilities that come along or else the great harm some of those high achievements might bring to the goodness in us like our humbelness and thankfullness in life.... but thats just my opinion and anyone is free to disagree.
    thanks

  25. Joseph Egypt

    Slightly Different Take

    Unlike what most people seem to think, I do not believe this poem is about ambition or the ability to perform when pushed to your limits. I think it is about humility! I believe the following explanation is warranted given Ms. Dickinson's Christian background. Consider the following bible passage (Luke 14:8-11,KJV): "When thou art bidden of any man to a wedding, sit not down in the highest room; lest a more…

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    Unlike what most people seem to think, I do not believe this poem is about ambition or the ability to perform when pushed to your limits. I think it is about humility!

    I believe the following explanation is warranted given Ms. Dickinson's Christian background.
    Consider the following bible passage (Luke 14:8-11,KJV):

    "When thou art bidden of any man to a wedding, sit not down in the highest room; lest a more honourable man than thou be bidden of him; And he that bade thee and him come and say to thee, Give this man place; and thou begin with shame to take the lowest room. But when thou art bidden, go and sit down in the lowest room; that when he that bade thee cometh, he may say unto thee, Friend, go up higher: then shalt thou have worship in the presence of them that sit at meat with thee.For whoever exalts himself shall be abased; and he that humbles himself shall be exalted."

    In these verses, Christ is saying that when people humble themselves, they will otherwise find glory from others calling them to "go up higher" or "rise".

    In light of this passage, here's how I read this poem:
    "We never know how high we are/Till we are called to rise" --> True glory comes from outside, from others calling on us to rise (i.e. praising us). Only then do we know our own glory: "how high we are".
    "And then, if we are true to plan/Our statures touch the skies" --> If we are truly humble according to God's plan, our "statures" will touch the sky: we will be glorified.
    "The heroism we recite/Would be a daily thing/Did not ourselves the cubits warp/For fear to be a king" --> When we try to glorify ourselves by talking about our exploits and merits (the "heroism we recite") would be a "daily thing": a normal, mundane thing no one would notice, UNLESS we are humble: unless we "warp the cubits" for fear of excessive glory (for fear "to be a king"). A cubit is an ancient unit of measure used in the Old Testament and to "warp" means to distort or transform for the worse. Thus "warping the cubits" means humbling ourselves by downplaying the "heroism we recite".

    Just my two cents...

  26. Mark ↩ replying to Joseph

    Not sure you are still out there, your comments some eight years passed. But I like your take on this. It’s really her story, the quiet gal who stashed her poems in a dresser drawer. There is so much meat in her words, so much weight in her reflection. I find the like in no one else. If brevity is the soul of wit, she is the wittiest by far. Thanks.

  27. maria stentiford

    I agree with most that the first part of the poem is about people not knowing what they are capable of until they are tested. .But I myself believe that the second part means that most people ,rather than fear failure, fear success.They fear to be all that they could be, because to be 'a KING',is scary, and could invite jealousy and malice, whereas to be no more than most people , in other words.the status quo, is much easier and safer.

  28. Leland P Gamson ↩ replying to Joseph

    Joseph, your interpretation is fantastic and consistent with Emily Dickenson's Christian values.

    Leland

  29. hepatoburn

    Thank you for this insightful analysis of Emily Dickinson's poem! I loved how you unpacked the themes of ambition and self-perception. It's fascinating to consider how Dickinson suggests that our true potential often remains hidden until we face challenges. Your exploration of the literary devices she employs really enhanced my understanding. I’ll definitely revisit the poem with fresh eyes!

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