A Boy Named Sue

Portrait of Shel Silverstein
Shel Silverstein 1930–1999

Well, my daddy left home when I was three, and he didn't leave much to Ma and me, just this old guitar and a bottle of booze. Now I don't blame him because he run and hid, but the meanest thing that he ever did was before he left he went and named me Sue.

Well, he must have thought it was quite a joke, and it got lots of laughs from a lot of folks, it seems I had to fight my whole life through. Some gal would giggle and I'd get red and some guy would laugh and I'd bust his head, I tell you, life ain't easy for a boy named Sue.

Well, I grew up quick and I grew up mean. My fist got hard and my wits got keen. Roamed from town to town to hide my shame, but I made me a vow to the moon and the stars, I'd search the honky tonks and bars and kill that man that gave me that awful name.

But it was Gatlinburg in mid July and I had just hit town and my throat was dry. I'd thought I'd stop and have myself a brew. At an old saloon in a street of mud and at a table dealing stud sat the dirty, mangy dog that named me Sue.

Well, I knew that snake was my own sweet dad from a worn-out picture that my mother had and I knew the scar on his cheek and his evil eye. He was big and bent and gray and old and I looked at him and my blood ran cold, and I said, "My name is Sue. How do you do? Now you're gonna die." Yeah, that's what I told him.

Well, I hit him right between the eyes and he went down but to my surprise he came up with a knife and cut off a piece of my ear. But I busted a chair right across his teeth. And we crashed through the wall and into the street kicking and a-gouging in the mud and the blood and the beer.

I tell you I've fought tougher men but I really can't remember when. He kicked like a mule and bit like a crocodile. I heard him laughin' and then I heard him cussin', he went for his gun and I pulled mine first. He stood there looking at me and I saw him smile.

And he said, "Son, this world is rough and if a man's gonna make it, he's gotta be tough and I knew I wouldn't be there to help you along. So I gave you that name and I said 'Goodbye'. I knew you'd have to get tough or die. And it's that name that helped to make you strong."

Yeah, he said, "Now you have just fought one helluva fight, and I know you hate me and you've got the right to kill me now and I wouldn't blame you if you do. But you ought to thank me before I die for the gravel in your guts and the spit in your eye because I'm the nut that named you Sue." Yeah, what could I do? What could I do?

I got all choked up and I threw down my gun, called him pa and he called me a son, and I came away with a different point of view and I think about him now and then. Every time I tried, every time I win and if I ever have a son I think I am gonna name him Bill or George - anything but Sue.

A Boy Named Sue: analysis

Introduction

"A Boy Named Sue" is a comic story told in the voice of a tough, rough-talking man. His father left the family when he was small. Before leaving, the father gave him a girl's name, Sue.

The name brings the boy years of teasing and fights. As a grown man he hunts his father down to kill him. After a wild brawl, the father explains why he chose the name. The poem is about names, fathers and sons, toughness, and an unlikely kind of forgiveness.

Summary

In the first stanza, the speaker says his father left home when he was three. He left only "this old guitar and a bottle of booze." The worst thing he did was name his son Sue.

In the second stanza, the name makes people laugh. The speaker has to "fight my whole life through." Girls giggle and he blushes. Boys laugh and he hits them.

In the third stanza, he grows up "quick" and "mean." He wanders from town to town in shame. He vows to find the man who named him and kill him.

In the fourth stanza, he arrives in Gatlinburg in mid-July, thirsty. In an old saloon he sees his father dealing cards at a table.

In the fifth stanza, he knows his father from an old picture and a scar. The father is now old and gray. The speaker introduces himself and says, "Now you're gonna die."

In the sixth stanza, he punches his father, who pulls a knife and cuts off part of his ear. They crash through the wall and fight in the muddy street.

In the seventh stanza, the speaker says this was one of his toughest fights. Both men reach for guns, and the speaker draws first. The father smiles.

In the eighth stanza, the father explains. He knew he would not be there to help. He gave his son the name so he would have to "get tough or die."

In the ninth stanza, the father says his son has the right to kill him. He adds that the son should first thank him for his toughness.

In the last stanza, the speaker throws down his gun. Father and son call each other "pa" and "son." He says he now sees things differently. If he has a son, he will name him "anything but Sue."

Themes and meaning

Names and identity sit at the centre of the poem. A single word shapes the speaker's whole life. It brings shame, laughter and endless fights. The poem asks how much a name decides who a person becomes. The father claims it is "that name that helped to make you strong."

A second theme is the relationship between an absent father and his son. The father is gone by line 1 and leaves almost nothing behind. The son's anger drives most of the poem. The meeting turns from an attempt at murder into a reunion. The line "called him pa and he called me a son" marks a real change.

A third theme is toughness in a hard world. The father says, "this world is rough." The son's life has been a series of fights, and the poem does not hide the violence. The father's plan works in one sense, since the son has "gravel in your guts." The poem can be read as praising that toughness, or as showing its high cost.

Forgiveness is the fourth theme, and it is left open. The son gets "a different point of view" and does not kill his father. Yet the last line says he would never repeat the choice. Readers can take this in two ways. He may accept the father's reasons but reject the method. Or the ending may hint that the father's explanation is an excuse he made up on the spot.

Tone

The voice is loud, boastful and colloquial. The speaker talks like a man telling a story in a bar. He uses words like "ain't," "gonna" and "helluva." Each stanza begins with a relaxed "Well" or "Yeah," as if he is spinning a yarn.

In the early stanzas the tone is bitter and self-pitying. The line "life ain't easy for a boy named Sue" is a complaint. The tone hardens into threat as he vows to kill his father.

The fight is told with comic exaggeration. The father "kicked like a mule and bit like a crocodile." The humour takes the edge off the violence.

The tone softens when the father speaks. The son is "choked up" and at a loss: "What could I do?" The last line brings back the joke. It lets the story end on a laugh rather than on sentiment.

Form and structure

The poem has 10 stanzas and 62 lines. Most stanzas have 6 lines, while others have 5 or 7. Line lengths range widely, from 7 to 17 syllables. The rhythm is loose and song-like, with about four strong beats in many lines. It is not a regular metre.

The stanzas often pair rhyming lines, as in "joke" and "folks" or "red" and "head." A recurring rhyme on the sound of "Sue" ties the story together: "through," "brew," "do," "view." Some line breaks fall in odd places, such as line 5 ending on "was." These breaks hide rhymes inside lines, like "hid" and "did." The effect is of a sung or spoken story set down on the page.

Poetic devices

refrain line 12
life ain't easy for a boy named Sue The phrase gives the poem its title and returns at key moments. It sums up the speaker's grievance in a single, catchy line.
parallelism line 14
My fist got hard and my wits got keen. The two halves of the line are built the same way. The balance shows body and mind toughening together.
hyperbole line 16
I made me a vow to the moon and the stars The grand vow is larger than life. It shows how seriously the speaker takes his revenge.
metaphor line 25
I knew that snake was my own sweet dad Calling his father a snake shows his hatred. Setting it beside "sweet dad" makes the phrase bitterly ironic.
enjambment line 23
sat the dirty, The sentence runs over into the next line before we learn who is sitting there. The pause builds suspense before the father appears.
alliteration line 37
in the mud and the blood and the beer The repeated "b" sounds and the chain of "and" pile up the mess of the brawl. The words "mud" and "blood" also rhyme.
simile line 39
He kicked like a mule and bit like a crocodile. The animal comparisons make the old man seem wild and dangerous. They also make the fight comic.
metaphor line 53
the gravel in your guts Gravel stands for grit and courage. The rough image fits the father's idea of toughness.
repetition line 55
What could I do? What could I do? The repeated question shows the son is at a loss. His anger has nowhere left to go.
irony line 62
anything but Sue After accepting his father's reasons, the son still refuses to repeat them. The ending undercuts the father's lesson with a joke.

Words worth knowing

honky tonks
Cheap bars, often with loud country music.
stud
Stud poker, a card game. The father is dealing cards at the saloon table.
mangy
Scruffy and dirty, like a dog with a skin disease. It is an insult here.
brew
A beer.
a-gouging
Gouging, meaning jabbing at the eyes or face in a fight. The added "a-" is an old spoken form.
gravel
Used here to mean grit, courage or toughness.

Context

The archive's records give this poem as sung by Johnny Cash, with the year 1969. It is a song lyric as well as a poem. That helps explain its loose rhythm, its refrain and its storytelling voice.

What readers have said

  • One reader saw the poem as about parents and children, where a parent's hurtful choice may be meant for the child's good. Hellur, 2005
  • A retired English teacher said the humour lies in the absurdity of keeping the name, but that names do shape self-image. Bill Jennings, 2005
  • A reader with a unisex name said a name does not define you, while admitting they would fight whoever gave them a bad one. Taylor Smith, 2006
  • A reader named Billie Sue said people often wonder whether they are a boy or a girl, and agreed that such a name makes you tough. Billie Sue Johnson, 2006
  • One reader asked why the slang and rough words were needed, calling them a fill for a lack of vocabulary. Spongy Bull, 2006
  • A reader pointed to a book about the Scopes trial that mentions a real lawyer whose father named him Sue. Fred, 2005

This analysis was drafted from the poem’s text, the records of American Poems and the readers’ comments. Every quotation and line number was checked against the poem, scanned for unsupported claims, and the editor read and revised it before publication. Facts about the poet’s life appear only when a source is given. Corrections are welcome through the contact page.

Revised in September 2026.

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  1. big whoop

    I wonder why this poem wasn't in a children's book... I wonder...

  2. Hellur Philippines

    There's more to it than meets the eye. At first glance it probably seems funny but what it's really all about is the relationship between parent and child. The parent sometimes (or maybe most of the times) does things that the child can't understand, which to him would seem like the wrong thing to do. But in reality, the parent did what he did because it's what he thought would be best for the child. After all, parents only want what's good for their children.

  3. The Rooster Girl of Texas United States

    WOW!!! I love Johnny Cash! And Shel Silverstein! I grew up hearing those songs and poems! I can't belive Shel wrote one of Johnny's funniest (and very meaningful) songs! That's really cool!

  4. becky

    Theres always another way to look at things...

  5. BOO mE United States

    good poem and song..intresting makes you think

  6. mike United Kingdom

    its one of my personal favorite songs and i cant believe it was written by shell either..wow..

  7. hana United States

    cute poem.., i think i kno why it wasnt in a kids book... i think...haha...

  8. - -*Jade United States

    I really like this poem and song as well! I like it a lot! =)

  9. Nikki Australia

    this poem iz sooo freakn awesome!! its really funny! i luv shel silverstien!!yayay!

  10. Frank United States

    Many times, I've listened to Johnny Cash do "A Boy Named Sue", had a laugh and drove on. Not until today did I know that Shel had written the words.

    Frank

  11. gailgw United States

    I am a high school teacher and I was looking for an entertaining poem to discuss with my students - I found one! I will also play the song for my kids to hear and to enjoy.

  12. Bill Jennings Australia

    As a retired English teacher I give occasional lectures to community groups on language and related topics, one being names and their origins, and how one's name relates to self-image. I sometimes start this lecture with a mention of "A Boy Named Sue". Its humour lies in its absurdity - why would the boy retain the name when he grew up, as if it was like a birthmark, scar or other unchangeable thing? But the…

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    As a retired English teacher I give occasional lectures to community groups on language and related topics, one being names and their origins, and how one's name relates to self-image. I sometimes start this lecture with a mention of "A Boy Named Sue". Its humour lies in its absurdity - why would the boy retain the name when he grew up, as if it was like a birthmark, scar or other unchangeable thing? But the cleverness of the poem is of course it isn't as absurd as all that. Names are very much a part of our identity, given to us by those responsible for our existence, and we don't lightly abandon or change our name. Parents often do give children awful, pretentious or obscure names, and mostly the kids put up with them all their life. So "A Boy Named Sue" is partly a satire on this. But surnames can be pretty bad too - Belcher, Swindell, Coward, Ramsbottom, Death (all of these originally had innocuous meanings, of course) - yet you'll find plenty of people in phone books with such names. Again, our name, whatever it is, is part of identity, and surnames in particular link us to ancestors and present families and relatives. Silverstein of course knows these traditions and sends them up in a marvellously humorous but basically fairly gentle fashion.

  13. Fred United States

    There really was a boy named Sue according to author Edward J. Larson in his book, "Summer for the Gods - The Scopes Trial", page 89. He was one of the lawyers that prosecuted John Scopes. He was named Sue by his father in memory of the boy's mother who died during his birth.

  14. Linda United States

    I'm reading Larson's book, saw the reference to the real boy named Sue who was one of the attorneys on the Scopes monkey trial. Does anyone know if Silverstein new the story about the Scopes lawyer, Sue K. Hicks? The song refers to Gatlinburg, TN and the trial was in Tennessee?

  15. Amanda United States

    My mother grew up a huge fan of Johnny Cash to the point where her family nicknamed her Johnny. I just happen to be bored and thought I would read a few poems from Shel Silverstein because his poems are always so interesting in a weird sort of way. I was amazed to find out that Shel Silverstein wrote this poem I think that my mother would love to here where the story came from. I am so glad I found this site!

  16. Gina Bahamas

    A few days ago I brought a copy of "Where The Sidewalk Ends" from a local charity thrift shop (couldn't pass up the $1 price). My daughters (17 & 8) and I dissolve with laughter everytime we read from it. My dad has that Johnny Cash LP and I actually remember listening to "A Boy Named Sue"as a child and thinking, "that's different". Now knowing that he wrote the song/poems I can see the similar "style". Very nice!(67oF/19oC)

  17. Taylor Smith United States

    Now when you look at my name what comes to mind? Guy or girl? It depends on who poeple know and their point of veiw. I personally don't know any guy Taylor's, although I know there are some. I was given a unisex name and not once have I ever thought about. A name is a name, it dosn't define who you are. If my name was Bob, I would certainly try to hurt the one who gave it to me. Shel puts a certain amount of information in a very understandable and mabea even child like poem. Now, let me ask you, after you have read this. Can you guess my age as well as my gender? I am 12 years old, suprised?

  18. Billie Sue Johnson United States

    Yes, thats my name. People wonder if I am a girl or a boy if they don't know me. I really like my name. Yes, it does make you tough.

  19. Ethan Smith

    This poem us awsoem i never knew that shel wrote it. Im a big fan of johnny and not really reading poems but now im gonna read more of shels cause he wrote this great one

  20. Amber United States

    i grew up to johnny cah and im still quite young but no matter what his song wll never get old.I am 13 years ld and I'm proud to admit that i love all music includinggood old Johnny C. R.I.P.Johnny Cash and may your music live on with peaceful notes.

  21. Marissa United States

    I love his poems and everything....BUT....i never knew that he died...lol well jus thought that i'd leave a comment....byee oh yes i love johnny cash also!!!!!!!

  22. Melissa United States

    I also like Johnny Cash. My Grandmother has his records and I heard the song and later I looked up the poem. Shel Silverstein is an awsome song writter and now I listen to his songs all the time

  23. Katelyn M United States

    I really thought this poem was cute! Espesially cuz it was made into a song. Although "A Boy Named Sue" is a strange name for a poem. I love Johnny Cash though.

  24. Lucas Canada

    Im a very big fan of Jony Cash so I really enhoyed it.

  25. Chloe United States

    I loved it

  26. Spongy Bull United States

    The poem is great! Why is the slang, and to some offensive words needed?

    If the reader, or listener to the song can't get the drift, and interpit to his/her own notions, then they have missed the whole picture.

    The cursing, slang, etc. is just a "fill" for lack of vocabulary. If you don't get that....take some language classes.

    Oh, BTW...I'm not offended personally, and ain't going to preach...this is just my opinion. (Yes..."ain't" is not good English...right? ;-)

  27. Alec United States

    A poem anyone (or nearly) who reads or listens to the song by Johnny Cash can relate to. Very heartfelt and down to the nitty gritty.

    It's one of those rare poems that has real soul..and Johnny did it great justice.

    Thanks, Shel and Johnny. Great team.

  28. Red- haired Kid United States

    I thought the poem was good. I've never heard the song though.

  29. John Australia

    I memorized this poem for poetry day and i did great, it is a great poem- woo!! lol!! hehe

  30. shandos Australia

    This is a great poem/song.Did you know that there is a second part. it's written from dad's point of view. v. funny. my fav shel poem though is called "the world's greatest smoke off" if you are a choofa, check it out. some great references to the 'herb'. Let me know how ya go.

  31. Jordan United States

    I LOVE this song!!!!!! I love Jhonny Cash and his music. I always listen to it. I am so glad that this was posted. I always go on this to check it out and I love to see this Jhonny Cash song!!!!!!!!!

  32. Taylor United States

    I love this poem. I chose it to memorize to recite to the class.

  33. James United States

    Dude this poem is awesome i can't belive you wrote it it's my favorite song by johnny cash!!!!

  34. Sabrina United States

    This is a great poem/song. It's one of my favorites by Johnny Cash. You also have many other awesome poems!

  35. teddy

    I love This song it is awesome!!!I love johnny cash, i had sex with him onr time and it was amazing!!!! To bad he isn't here now.

  36. Samantha United States

    I love johnny cash and shel silverstein. They are both genuises.

  37. Mark Carpenter

    That poem (and song) takes me back 50 years.

    LOVED the song. LOVED the poem. I had no idea it was Shel Silverstein!

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